But I do have a few specific ambitions in life that I'm pretty sure will remain consistent for a number of years, and because of those ambitions, there is one thing that I'd look for in a woman.
I'd hope to be with someone I can go back and forth with on ideas, and someone who is just as willing to take control in certain situations as I am.
I'm all for supporting women, their choices, their agency and understand any of their desire loosen the restraints of any gender role.
Furthermore, as someone who grew up in a church, I'm well aware the idea that, for many people, that difference between men and women manifests itself most in the role that each plays in marriage.
It can also be in relation to the type of sexual activity that the partners will engage in, including non-coital sex such as anal sex, or BDSM or sexual roleplay.
On our first date, although we only kissed, he told me I wouldn't be the same when he was done with me.
I don't, by any means, shade a woman who wants to submit.
In fact, I totally understand the willingness to be submissive, if not the outright desire to.
When I first met Doug on in 2005, we were 26 and living in Washington, D.
C., both recently out of serious relationships, both working long hours at jobs we loved.