What I can assure you of is that their unavailability isn’t sparked by something you said or did, it’s not that they’ve ‘changed’ and that you need to find the right ‘access code’ and you’re definitely not going crazy; they’re More often than not, the primary issue that women focus on is the emotional unavailability but there are always physical and spiritual issues to prop it up.
Mr Unavailable isn’t a Bad Boy per se and has nice qualities, which is what keeps the millions of women lingering around.
To be fair – most people have ‘nice qualities’ and of course, as humans, we’re very good at rustling up qualities and seeing the best in people.
If a woman has purely casual sex for any other reason than getting her rocks off, say, because she enjoys feeling desired, she is possibly about to see her strategy backfire on her, because men don’t always reciprocate a woman’s reasons for having sex – they don’t always have sex because they desire the woman.
Clarify missed calls Did he take hours to call back? If you’re just someone he is having temporary fun with, he isn’t concerned about you getting pissed about those things.
But if he makes a point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or “Oh my god I just realized you sent me a text when I was at work and I completely forgot to answer! ” then you’re not someone he is willing to let go of easily.
Ask about “that thing”If you had a job interview you were nervous about, or a doctor’s appointment, a meeting about a possible promotion, or just something you had once mentioned was coming up and he makes a point of calling you up after to ask how it went, he is serious about you.
Men who aren’t serious about a woman make a point of not asking for too many details about her life.